“Trust is your biggest gift for others. Don’t ever give it to cheap people.”
I'm guessing we all have the same problem. TRUST. Trusting is something that we need in life. It's one of the aspects that drives or motivates us on to doing something extraordinary. But it is also a very rare quality. As of the 21st century, it is very hard to find a person who’s trustworthy. I guess we all agree with that. So, how do you know which person you should trust? That’s a universal problem.
We’ll first elaborate on the person who you shouldn’t trust. So who is it? There will be friends of you who will look nice, will be there when you need but expects a lot from you. If you are unable to fulfill those expectations or at least a few of it, then you are considered the bad person. There are people who look like they’d help you but don’t even care about you for a single second. They are just with you for your assets such as money or your valuables. This is a common problem within both genders but highly common within females. People will come and beg you for help and never ever comeback when you need them. People will have a smile on their faces, talk about absolutely nonsense just to have a conversation, and they will attack on you when they need to acquire your assets. Jealousy is the biggest enemy of trust. Beware of the people you are with.
We must realize that we live in a cruel and a challenging world. As humans, our mind is no second to the universal power. If we realize this very fact we can overcome anything. Therefore, we have to have a strong mindset when dealing with people especially when it comes to the trusting part.
There will be people who’ll help you with their dear life. They will give their life for you if it’s worth. These people will help you no matter what and will never expect anything from you. They always keep promises and protect them like their own eyes. They protect your secrets and respect your private life. You will meet people, where they will make fun of you, bug you, do stupid stuff with you and at the same time they volunteer to help you in every possible way they can. These types of people are the ones you can trust.
Particular people creates bullshit assumptions such as your trustworthy partner should always help you the way you want. Or else, they are bad friends. That’s absurd. Even though friends you have are trustworthy there are certain limits where they cannot cross. Therefore you must understand that we all are humans and we all make mistakes. Just because they do silly mistakes doesn't mean that they are unworthy and unfaithful. But keep your eye open. You never know what's coming.
Friends, it is up to you to decide who your trust is. You can’t judge people on the first encounter. It might even take years to find this person. It is hard. I know. But it is worth a try. If you have or think that you have a person like that in your life, never ever give up on them. Sometimes they can be busy with their own personal life. But that doesn’t mean that they don’t care about you. As Siddhartha Gautama said that if it is hard to find a trustworthy person, trust only yourself. That is the best way to life up to your goals.
Friends, it is up to you to decide who your trust is. You can’t judge people on the first encounter. It might even take years to find this person. It is hard. I know. But it is worth a try. If you have or think that you have a person like that in your life, never ever give up on them. Sometimes they can be busy with their own personal life. But that doesn’t mean that they don’t care about you. As Siddhartha Gautama said that if it is hard to find a trustworthy person, trust only yourself. That is the best way to life up to your goals.
- Akila Hettiarachchi